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Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:10 am
by Progrumz
Maybe we should just all be besties.

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:24 am
by TechWiz18
Juneberry wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:06 am
TechWiz18 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2024 11:45 pm
Juneberry wrote: ↑Fri Apr 19, 2024 11:10 pm Friendship can be hard. I still struggle with it (especially offline) but for me the hard part is just keeping in touch and keeping my trust in people because anxiety is fun.
I've found myself slow to trust and even once I do trust people my brain likes to still doubt 😭 it's kind of annoying. Especially when they haven't done anything to break that trust.
Now try having a personality disorder that is basically just amplified trust issues. xD
Yeah, I think I'm good <3 :sweat:
Progrumz wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:10 am Maybe we should just all be besties.
Works for me :) :party:

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 4:28 am
by Juneberry
TechWiz18 wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:24 am
Juneberry wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:06 am Now try having a personality disorder that is basically just amplified trust issues. xD
Yeah, I think I'm good <3 :sweat:
Lol no I was saying as in that's my situation xD
TechWiz18 wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:24 am
Progrumz wrote: ↑Sat Apr 20, 2024 1:10 am Maybe we should just all be besties.
Works for me :) :party:
I like this plan too!

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 4:56 am
by Progrumz
Does anybody else feel that relationships have become much more transactional in recent years?

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 2:02 pm
by TechWiz18
I could see that

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2024 2:07 pm
by Progrumz
Yeah, it feels like fewer people want to be friends. It seems that people are only interested in what you can do for them.

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:49 pm
by Ravenfreak
I don't have many in real life friends and I'm terrible about replying to messages. :S My wife and I have a best friend in real life but all of our other friends are online friends. She actually got to hang out with one of her internet friends who lives in Rochester last month.

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:53 pm
by Megan
I’ve never been great at making friends. Honestly these days all of em are just online ones. I mostly just hang with family otherwise.

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2024 12:17 am
by Progrumz
Megan wrote: ↑Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:53 pm I’ve never been great at making friends. Honestly these days all of em are just online ones. I mostly just hang with family otherwise.
Online friends are great!

Re: Trying to make friends

Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2024 1:59 am
by TechWiz18
Ravenfreak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:49 pm I don't have many in real life friends and I'm terrible about replying to messages. :S My wife and I have a best friend in real life but all of our other friends are online friends. She actually got to hang out with one of her internet friends who lives in Rochester last month.
I sometimes find myself reading a message I received when I shouldn't have and can't reply and then never go back around to respond >_<
Megan wrote: ↑Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:53 pm I’ve never been great at making friends. Honestly these days all of em are just online ones. I mostly just hang with family otherwise.
Yeah, for whatever reason making online friends seems, to some extent, easier?
Progrumz wrote: ↑Mon Apr 22, 2024 12:17 am
Megan wrote: ↑Sun Apr 21, 2024 10:53 pm I’ve never been great at making friends. Honestly these days all of em are just online ones. I mostly just hang with family otherwise.
Online friends are great!
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